Spellcraft: Relationship Spell

Sometimes despite the fact that we long for a wonderful relationship with someone - parent, sibling, friend, significant other, spouse -- we seem to say and do all the wrong things and damage the relationship. This spell is to help you have better interactions and communications conducive to forging a better and stronger relationship which a specific person. Because I am a Wiccan and follow the Wiccan Rede, this spell DOES NOT violate the free will of the other person. It merely assists you in having the best interpersonal skills possible with a person.

You will notice that I keep my spells simple. I try to formulate my spells using simple household items that are likely to be readily available in the household of the average practitioner.  It is my belief that being effective is always far more important than being fancy.

Relationship Spell

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Items needed:

white candle

(I use tea light candles because they are cheap, come in bulk, easy to find and being white makes them versatile for use in any spell)

9" piece of string, yarn, cord or leather lace

• Light the white candle while calling in whatever Goddess, God, or helpers that you use when doing your magickal workings. 
• Tie at knot at approximately 1" on your cord
• As you tie the knot say "It is my desire to have the best possible relationship with [person's name]
• Tie another knot a short distance away from the first knot and say "May everything I say to this person be in the best interest of my relationship with this person"
• Tie another knot a short distance from the last knot and say "May every interaction I have with this person be in the best interest of my relationship with this person"
• Tie another knot using both ends of the string to form it into a circle and say "May everything I do and say with this person be helpful in strengthening my relationship with this person"
• Conclude your spell with "And it harm none, my spell is done. So mote it be."
• Extinguish your candle
• End your magickal working the way you normally would, thanking and saying good bye to your helpers.
• Take your spell cord and place it in a safe place. You can wrap it in a cloth, place it in a drawer, put it in a sacred place on your altar or keep it on your person. The choice is yours.

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This spell is designed to be worked at any time there is need. However, you could strengthen the spell by working it during the waxing phase of the moon which is the 14 day period when the moon grows from dark to full. This is the time to work positive magick to draw things to you or increase things which in this case is to increase your relationship skills with a particular person.  You could additionally strengthen this spell by working it in the astrological sign of Libra. And, you could work your spell on a Friday which is ruled by Venus, the Goddess of love and relationships. These are just a few of the optional things you could do to add some extra oomph to your spell. However, the most important thing you can do for your spell is work it with clear intent and strongly believe in your spellcraft.

Bright Blessings,

Rayven Michaels